I always imagined myself coming home to a nice house with my kids yelling and playing in the house with their toys, my wife cooking or cleaning in one of her cute dresses wearing heels even with make up on and her hair done. I know it sounds kind of sexist but I don't know why I just always dreamt of coming home to that. to my wife looking beautiful listening to Billie Holiday, June Christy, Frank Sinatra or any type of old school jazz while she cooks or cleans or just simply rearranges her things around the house.
The weird thing is I've always believed that both the mother and father should work so I don't know where thats coming from maybe its just one too many movies and tv shows I've seen where couples have that perfect relationship and the father comes home to a warm meal, with his wife and kids already waiting at the table and the family has a good conversation, after that its a little tv then bed. But wheres the fighting? wheres the problems at school subject? wheres the "kids are being stubborn and won't do their homework" line? I mean really when you think about it fighting is healthy those little arguments do mean something in time a parents job isn't done when they get home from work its just starting. The wife is always gonna need something done around the house and the husband is always gonna have to have the energy to do that even with dealing with the kids. As much as I would love to have a job that pays so well that my wife can stay home with the kids I think its very important that both parents work and bring money to the dinner table. Regardless of this I'll have Frank Sinatra, June Christy and Billie Holiday playing through my house for sure.
